Hi. Im the one that asked about liking this guy in college and we have class together. We’re only like acquaintances and not really friends but sometimes when I ask, he would give me rides home after class. In class when I try to sit next to him and talk to him, he doesn’t have much to say and conversation dies out. But in the car, we would have better conversations. Sometimes hes like cold and its really hard for me to get him to open up.
So today after class, I asked him to give me a ride home and he agreed. In the car we were talking about how he has a pretty chill schedule this quarter. I suggested if he wanna grab something to eat or hang out sometime and he didn’t reject and said sure maybe. He told me to facebook him but I wanted his number. And I said I rather call or text than do facebook cus some people don’t respond on facebook and he said he does that sometimes too. But then he said he only gives out his number to closest friends and he had a bad experience in the past where he gave his number to a girl and she gave it away to other people. And im like, does that mean if I ask for your number now, ur not gonan give it? And then he said yes. And I didn’t overreact or anything and just said ill fb him sometime. But he is so challenging and hard to get. I don’t even know what will it take for him to give me his number. Asking him to hang out on facebook is really limited cus he has an excuse of not seeing it and he don’t need to respond. What can I do to be closer friends and eventually get his number? I don’t know what to do, or if he even made the story up and didn’t wanan give it to me or it was really true.
You should just talk to him more. Catch him after class or something and just ask if wants to hang out. Like go out to lunch or something fun. Talking in person is better so if you get the chance, go for it.
okay i did something really stupid. Me and my friend went to my ex's house cause i still have feelings for him but we went uninvited. So we just went to see his house for fun and we didnt think we would even meet him. But we were just standing outside his house giggling and he opens his window and asks what were doing here, We didnt even have time to make an excuse so we said that we were going to the train station and she had to use the bathroom so he let her use his bathroom and it was really akward and weird. he seemed mad a lil too xD now im scared of what he thinks of me. Cause I don’t want him to think im his crazy stalker ex. I still have feelings for him and for him to think bad of me is just terrible. We didn’t even think we would see him and he probably will tell other people too about this. So what should I do now for him to think not bad of me? And also what do I do for him to forget about this situation?
I think you should go up to him and tell him what actually happened. Explain how it was just a misunderstanding. :)
There's this guy that I've been in love with since the 3rd grade and so has he. We went out for like 3 days, but then we had to break up because this shit started going down with my exisshfriend & my cousin. They've dated him before. yes, my cousin dated him, but she has also dated my ex that i loved soo.. yeah. The thing is he wants to be with me still, and i do too. But, i just don't wanna lose my cousin again.
I think you should talk to your cousin about it. If she respects you, she should let you be happy. :)
Hi... me and my ex were going out for 81/2 months and broke up at the enbd of march because he was being a douche. he didn't talk to me for a month and when i saw him he dogged the shit outta me... ): Im still not over the dude , but at the same time i wouldn't get back with him . how do i get over him? :/ i was soo in love with the guy.
I think you should go out with your girlfriends. Hang out with them, friends can help you not think of him :) And before you know it, you might even be in a relationship with someone new.
im in college now and i have a crush on this guy in class. we had classes before i had always liked him, after the first time we had class together. during the previous classes we had together, i would always try to sit next to him and talk to him. and this quarter i have class with him again. but the only problem is he seems like a cold guy, kinda hard to approach and talk to. although he did gave me a ride home two nights after class, we talk and stuff but its like we’re still not friends yet. i dont want him to think im wierd for always sitting next to him because we’re not like friends yet. I guess we’re like acquaintances. I wanna be friends with him and let him know I like him cus I might not have classes with him again. Can u give me tips on how to be friends with him and let him know I like him?
I think you should just keep talking to him. Like after class, catch up to him and ask him if he wanted to hang out sometime :)
i really like this guy but everytime i hang out with him i dont talk because he makes me so nervous and im scared im going to say something stupid... i hung out with him today and all i wanted was for us to be alone and to give him the BIGGEST hug ever...i just dont know what to do...
Try your best to lose that nervous-ness. Just be confident. I’m sure nothing can go wrong, just let loose and be yourself :)
Hey, you gave me some advice on my boyfriend and his best friend being my best friend who was really upset that me and my boyfriend were dating because he's had a crush on me since 2nd grade. I'd like to tell you that everything is okay now :) Thanks for just listening.
You’re welcome and I’m so glad everything worked out! :) xoxoxo
Hi c:
Well, there's this guy I've been in love with him for awhile,
but he has a girlfriend, everyone's telling me to move on, until he's single, but no one seems to understand, once I move on, I can't go back ...And I'm so afraid of losing him, even though he isn't even mine ..
Any advice ?
I think you shouldn’t get in the way of it even if it hurts you because then he’ll be unfaithful to his girlfriend and that’s not right. Maybe you should wait to see what happens in the future or talk to other people. If you don’t want to lose him, you can always stay friends with him. xoxo
hi.
so, i love your blog and all the cute quotes and the creative pics! its always cute to look at :) anyways, there's this really cute, smart, awesome guy that i like, and we've only talked a half a dozen times. he is only in one of my classes and i want to talk to him and become friends and then see where we go with that. any ideas?
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Well, I think you should just randomly go up and talk to him. Maybe when he’s alone too so you won’t be too nervous :) Just say something that’s friendly or something that’ll make him laugh. Trust me, that’s how I start talking with people I see around school. xoxo
